Do you feel frustrated? He does not make love to you anymore? Are you feeling unattractive and taken for granted? If you are like me, you would have run to your lawyer’s office, filed your divorce application and packed you bag. Later on, I find that this decision is wrong.
I know how you feel, the fire has gone, he is probably doing it with another and surely, he will file for divorce anytime from now. You think that you might as well file it ahead of him just to save your face? I definitely understand how you feel.
However, I regretted my decision. I never knew there was a problem. I never cared; he does not like me anymore, might as well find love outside.
It is not infidelity, it is an ED. Erectile dysfunction, a subject men hate to talk about because it is an attack to their masculinity. The problems is that it would not stand anymore.
Because men are too ashamed to talk about their inefficiency, they often ignore invitation for a night rendezvous. Men go home late and intoxicated. This however is not because he met with another woman; it is because he does not want to try anymore. He is often frustrated if he failed to satisfy you. He will not dare try it again because he feels humiliated.
If your husband is having this problem, please do not file for divorce; help him by accompanying him to the doctor. This is a serious condition because almost 70% of erectile dysfunction cases in the United States are due to health problems. Some of the erectile dysfunction cases brought to doctors are linked to major health problems like diabetes, heart disease, vascular disease and other degenerative diseases.
Do not ignore erectile dysfunction, this can be something serious. Additionally, if it is just psychological your doctor is also the person to ask. He can give you treatments that will bring back the fire in your relationship.
Do not file for divorce, check the source of the problem and try to remedy the problem side-by-side with your man.
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Josie P. de Dios is a freelance writer with tons of articles on health and travel published both online and in print. She is also the author of an e-book on Antioxidant entitled “Be Healthy for Success”. View some of her work at http://josie.dedios.googlepages.com/, www.travelwriters.com/josie_dedios and www.writing.com/authors/josie_dedios.
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